Abusive Husbands in Court…

Every judge and lawyer ought o have to study this. My god, it’s like they described exactly what happened to me, when I went to court with my first husband.

He had the lawyer, and I was sitting their, like a lamb about to be slaughtered. He had the job, and I was “just” a stay at home mom. He lied, and the judge believed him. He and his lawyer got to present their case for 50 minutes, out of the 60 minutes, that we had alloyed for the lynching…oops! I meant, for the hearing.

Flat out showed the judge irrefutable evidence that my ex was lying, and perjured himself on his court documents. The judge said that wasn’t within the scope of the case.

I handed the judge a stack of over a dozen character witness affadivits…he said he hardly see how that mattered.

I showed him the court printout of how my husband had a lien on his condo, he cause of failure to pay child support ( for SEVEN YEARS), and owed still the judge acted as though bing a deadbeat dad was the most honorable thing in the world.

In the end, my ex got custody of my daughter… The judge was severely biased against homeschooling and I home schooled my daughter….

They uprooted her from her home, and family, and moved handed her over to my ex, where at the time, she even had to share a small bedroom with her STEP-brother, and half-brother (and she was almost TWELVE, at that time), even though she had her own room at my house….

I wouldn’t trust the criminal justice system, or the police to keep me and my children safe if our lives depended on it….oh wait….hmmmmm

The whole thing was a mockery.

Hi. I’m Story Lynne, (a.k.a. The Narcissist’s Wife). Nice to meet you. I’m the mother of 4 amazing kids, the (soon-to-be-ex) wife of a narcissist, and the author of this blog. I’m also a teacher, a healer, an intuitive empath, and Angel Card Reader.
I love fairies, angels, the color pink, anything sparkly, and Legos. (the Elves are my absolute favorites). I also love fixing cars, building shit, and shooting my bow (as in, bow and arrow).

3 Comments

  • I just am finishing up my divorce from narcissist #1 and very similar with what you described. He has lied and fooled his lawyer to thinking I’m crazy and abusive to our child. Nothibg coukd be further from the truth. You know the funny thing is, I think he only pulls for custody for our daughter because he knows how much it kills me and it’s a way he tries to control, abuse and manipulate me even though we are separated. He too uses the homeschool against me. We agreed together that we would homeschool but then he all a sudden turned it around like I am harming her by teaching her from home. He wanted to get the court to force me to put her in public school. I thought how ass backwards have things become that tending to your cvcikd amd putting more time into their education is frowned upon by our culture AND the judges. I’m painted to be a horrible mother when in fact I’m going the extra mile to make sure she is educated aboe the state standards giving her more of an opportunity to succeed. Although I have my daughter for now with joint custody I’m continually afraid he’ll take her and the court will support it.

    • WOW!
      It’s like they all share the same Narc playbook. If it wasn’t so traumatic, it might be funny..

      Still, sometimes, to entertain myself, I imagine what it would be like if two narcs were to gaslight each other… ha ha ha. Can you imagine what their response would be- hearing their own words being parroted back to them? Seeing all their “unique” tactics, displayed like common property? My God- can’t you just SEE IT? HA ha ha

      • From what I’ve seen they tend to be friends. I assume this is because narcissist like to be the best at everything. So if they are both boasting to each other about how amazing they are the other believes it and wants to be around them to boost their own image. Then when they fight or disagree they look down on the other and discard the new enemy and move on.

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