Gaslighting, Part 2- What Gaslighting Looks Like in Real-Life

Narcissistic Abuse
I'm grateful that there are websites out there that aim to educate the victims of narcissistic abuse, as to what is being done to them, and what I'm about to write is not, in any way, intended to take from their work. (The angels who devote their time & resources to educating, and helping the victims of abuse, are held in my highest regard). I felt called to write, what I'm about to write, because of my own, personal experience, at that time in my life, and the emotions that I dealt with, as I was searching for answers. It is my intention to help other women (or men, as the case may be), who might be built somewhat like me, to avoid further pain and confusion, as they seek out…
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Gaslighting: A Series (Part 1 – What is Gaslighting?)

Narcissistic Abuse
Well, hello there, friends. I'm so glad you are here today, and I hope that you decide to stick around, because, Guys...shit's about to get real! I'm going to talk to you about gaslighting. What it is. How it happens. What it looks and feels like. How to tell if you're being gaslighted. WHY the narcissist gaslights you. And, most importantly, How to STOP the narcissist from gaslighting YOU! (more…)
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How to Tell if the Man You Love Hates You

Narcissistic Abuse
I have had the misfortune of falling in love with a man, who say can look into my eyes and say "I love you", even while just beneath his surface lurks a vicious parasite, filled with hate. A killer of dreams. A raper of souls. A breaker of hearts. A self-loathing man who violently envies everything I am and, hates me for it. Are you in the same boat? This is how to tell if the man you love hates you. As much as it kills me to acknowledge it... there are predators in this world. Real-life vampires, who feed off your pain and suffering. Drink it in, like fresh blood, but are never, EVER satisfied. There are monsters out there- who would feast on the loving devotion of innocent (well, more like…
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