How to Tell if YOU Are the Narcissist

Narcissistic Personality Disorder-Narcissism
Are YOU the Narcissist? How to Know For Sure. There are many thousands of reasons why being married to a narcissist just plain sucks. I can personally attest to that. The sheer number of abuse tactics used against you is enough to drive anyone to the very edge of insanity. And yet, once you're at that edge, the abuses just keep coming. One push, after another... just to see how long it takes before you topple over that edge. Narcissists are relentless that way. Here is a little irony for you… Even though my husband had approx. 77,348 different ways to annoy, enrage, confuse, devalue, manipulate, and objectify me- in the end, none of that is what made the narcissistic abuse experience so terrifying for me. Not to say that…
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What Does TRUE Accountability Look Like?

What Does TRUE Accountability Look Like?

Narcissistic Abuse Recovery & Healing Trauma
That's it! I've had enough. He's gone too far, this time, and I've HAD IT! I can't take another moment of his torture. I'm outta here! Your overnight bag is packed, and you've arranged to stay a few days with your parents, or a friend. You are SERIOUSLY DONE with his shit. He crossed the line SO FAR this time, you're seeing red and you're ready to sign the injunction... (more…)
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The Pathologically Unfaithful Narcissist 

The Pathologically Unfaithful Narcissist 

Narcissistic Personality Disorder-Narcissism
So... about a week or so before I found the courage to break the cycle of abuse, and end my decade-long marriage, my husband claimed to have been hired at a new job. He had to travel to a nearby city for a week, in order to attend a training intensive for the job. but managed to to be late on his very first day, showing up unprepared, and without the company uniform. Of course, he blamed his mother for this failure. First, for not providing what he needed for his first, big day... Even though he was perfectly capable of preparing himself, and instead chose to spend the days before his first day of training hanging out with a friend and getting drunk.... Or high. Who know? Then secondly,…
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In A Narcissist’s Own Words: A Series

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The sequence of events that led many of you here- to my blog, and to countless other sites like it- is eerily similar. In fact, the sequence of events that characterizes the entirety of the narcissistic relationship, is eerily similar from victim, to victim. At first, life is good, and you're thrilled to have met a man whom you're starting to believe could be 'the one'...your soul mate. The way you connected, so easily and so quickly, may have been a little outside the scope of what you had intended or imagined for the relationship but, the depth and intensity cannot be denied. It's unlike anything you've ever experienced before... and it feels amazing. Though, occasionally, there are moments when your beloved seems a bit off, or distant, you explain it away. He told you all about…
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